David Wygant – Fear & Love

In over 14 years of doing this, I think I have heard it all. I think I have heard every fear imaginable — fear of approaching, fear of getting intimate, fear of saying what’s on your mind and even fear of initiating that first kiss.

You guys have labeled all these things in so many different and creative ways, from monkey chatter to approach anxiety. I mean, if you Google “fear,” it is amazing how many different versions of it will pop up in the search results.

What I am about to share with you in today’s podcast is going to blow you away. I know that every week I tell you that the podcast is the most powerful one ever, but that is because every week I come up with something more powerful than the week before.

In this podcast, I am going to tell you why there are only two emotions in this world: one is love and the other is fear. Hate is fear. Approach anxiety is fear.

Love and fear really are the only two emotions, and in this podcast I explain to you how to really embrace loving everything and fearing nothing. Click here to listen now: Read more

David Wygant – Attraction By Natural Instinct

Before you listen to today’s podcast, I am about to share with all the men something to which you need to really pay attention.

Yesterday on the flight home from New York City, I was sitting next to a guy who was wearing a pair of True Religion jeans. Every time he bent over or reached down for something, the whole plane had the privilege of seeing half of his hairy ass. I am not just talking “plumber butt crack,” this was plumber butt crack on steroids.

This is not something anyone needs to see . . . ever. Every time he moved, every person on that plane — women, men and children — were forced to see his ass.
SO, guys, if you can feel the wind chafing your ass when you are wearing jeans, then it means they are way too low and you need to cover up!

Now, on to another revealing topic . . .

This might be the most powerful podcast you will ever hear. I was recently on the phone with a guy who was thinking about taking a Bootcamp, and he asked me why he has trouble approaching women. He had already attended someone else’s bootcamp at which they had instructed him to approach women using some kind of pickup line.

I told him that pickup lines will never work. Life is all about observations based on instincts. He asked me about what kind of instincts I was talking, and I told him I was talking about the kind of instincts we have as a child. Read more

David Wygant – Ultimate Passion

This is interesting. How many of you live a life about which you are absolutely not passionate?

You go to a job. You date someone to whom you are not attracted. You may not even like your dog. Whatever it may be, how many of you can’t speak about your life with passion?

If you can’t, do you know why you can’t? It is because you are really not in love with who you are.

Passion comes from within. People who speak with passion, speak from power that comes from within themselves. Meaning, they love everything about themselves.

They’ve accepted their insecurities. They’ve accepted their fears. They’ve accepted all these things about themselves, and they have embraced themselves.
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David Wygant – There’s No Such Thing As A Bad Day

Have you ever asked someone how their day is going, and had them respond, “Man, I am just having such a bad day today!” It makes you almost want to run away.

When I hear that I almost want say to myself “God, I wish I didn’t even ask,” because you know what is going to follow that answer. You know that if they are letting you know that they are having a bad, that they are also going to want to share everything that happened on that bad day with you.

They are going to bring all that bad energy with them, and they are going to dump it all over you. Having to listen to someone vent about a bad day is like having the flu for five or ten minutes. Read more

David Wygant – The #1 Communication Problem Men Have

The other night during dinner I came up with a quote I want you to read:
“Embrace change at my own pace.”

I embrace change at my own pace.

You need to really take that statement in and listen to what it’s saying. How many times in a relationship have you talked to someone and given them your point of view, and then expected them to just react right away?

Let’s say you’re dating someone and you’ve been talking a little here and there about moving in together. Then you say to the other person that you want to move in with them and you list all the reasons why it’s a good idea. Do you then expect the other person to immediately respond with an answer? Do you get angry if they don’t immediately react and respond?

So many of us spend so much time wanting people to react the way we react. We want them to react exactly how we react and do it when we want them to do it. Read more

David Wygant – God’s Waiting Room

I want to share a story with you that’s really interesting. When my step-grandfather was alive, he used to live in Fort Lauderdale. He used to say to me all the time, “The one thing I don’t like about Florida or Arizona is that so many people come down here to die.”

I looked at him and said, “What do you mean? Don’t they come down here to retire?” He said,”No, they come down here to die. This place is like God’s waiting room. So many people have just given up on life that they come here to just exist.”

You know, it’s interesting. The other day I was having a conversation with a friend of mine, and I realized that so many people are so afraid to unwrap the gift of life. Life is an amazing gift. People are just afraid to unwrap it. Read more

Ratisse – Sexual Escalation

Ratisse is back with the recording of a presentation he gave to the South Florida Lair. In this podcast, Ratisse focuses on sexual escalation. Enjoy!
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David Wygant – Set Your Intent

Let’s talk a little bit about setting an intent. I’m going to share a story with you, one that is very personal to me.

The other night I was kind of just sitting around, and I started reminiscing a little bit. Then I started thinking to myself, “God, it’s amazing.” I read all your posts on the blog and on YouTube. I see all of you struggling so much either trying to meet someone, to work on aspects of your relationship or to work on aspects of yourself. What I realized was that I think a lot of you are missing the point.

Here’s the story I want to share with you. When I was nineteen years old, I was really skinny. I know I’m not exactly the bulkiest guy in the world right now. At nineteen, though, I was really thin. I was a ‘tall drink of water’ — tall, lean and thin.

Then I saw the movie Flashdance. As most of you know, Flashdance was a hot, sexy dance movie. After seeing it I thought to myself, “I really want to be in that type of shape where I can just rock it at all times.” Read more

David Wygant – Logical Thinking Will Not Work While Meeting Women

Are you a logical thinker?

Are you a man or a woman who thinks out the whole conversation before you approach someone of the opposite sex?

Are you someone who actually thinks about dates before you go on them? Do you think about what is going to happen or what exactly you need to do to make things happen the way you want? Read more

Kezia Interview

Next installment of the SNL Interview Series features a unique dating coach: Kezia. Kezia is a female dating coach whom aside from being super-sexy, also delivers cutting edge seduction advice. If you’ve ever wondered just what it takes to get a woman like Kezia, listen up! She delivers practical advice on how to keep a conversation going, how to sexually escalate the interaction, and how to modify your behavior in simple yet effective ways that guarantee you come off confident and attractive every time. Enjoy, guys!

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