Mr. M – The Foundation Of Natural Game
From the new Love Systems Inner Game Seminar
(Notes: (1) This is a modified version of my old ‘Inverted Seduction’ post in The Lounge (2) Also look out for Tenmagnet’s soon to be released book on Natural Game! It’s going to be awesome.)
This is an absolutely key principle for success in Game. The caveat is that it is an advanced principle – without having spent time in the field, you may not appreciate its power. I have found that the Inverted Seduction Principle which I describe below (which is related to the NLP ‘Go First’ principle) has universal application for ALL people that I interact with – not just beautiful women – but also high value men, ‘value connectors’ and even friends and family.
Introduction
This principle goes against some traditional game theory, but is extremely powerful. You do not consciously ‘micro-calibrate’ when using the Inverted Seduction Principle. Nor do you plan what you are saying or try to figure out your value relative to her value. Instead, you feel, and let your sub-communications do the rest.
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Soul – How To Get Good At Day Game
June 25, 2009 by Adonis · Leave a Comment
Soul is a Day Game Expert from Love Systems. Check out this Day Game Video (not to mention his blog: LifeWithSoul.com:
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Cajun – Advanced Body Language, Part II: Restraint
June 25, 2009 by Adonis · Leave a Comment
Originally posted on Cajun’s Blog.
Hey guys, this is part 2 of a 3 part series I’ve written on advanced body language. You can read part 1 here. And for those of you who wish to see some visual examples of what I’m talking about you can watch the video of me I’ve linked in my sig (My keys episode).
In the last article I mentioned that, after systematically analyzing the shit out of the most prolific sexual icons in history, I managed to nail down a formula of how to move in a way that exudes many of the qualities humans (that’s women AND men) go crazy for. The first quality I explained was sexual presence, and if you’ve followed and practiced what I said then you should now have no trouble successfully approaching (and being approached by) the most beautiful women in the venue without getting blown out. But that is just the beginning and you now have a new challenge to undertake; how do you rise above the inevitable onslaught of shit tests and cockblocks? Read more
Mr. M – Guide To Qualification
June 24, 2009 by Adonis · Leave a Comment
The Importance Of Qualification
Many students on bootcamp get completely caught up on opening and attracting girls. While these are crucial steps, understanding qualification and the value of setting a qualifying frame is absolutely crucial to not only successfully getting a woman – but getting better with women generally. All very successful PUAs and naturals I know use qualification extremely well.
Why is Qualification So Important / Powerful In Seduction?
Qualification is surprisingly easy to apply but few people actually understand why it is so powerful. On the surface level, qualifying a woman allows her to feel that she is liked by you for deeper reasons (other than her looks). She thus feels validated and more strongly connected to you. However, the effect of qualifying goes far deeper than this.
Almost all seduction technology replicates techniques and mindsets that ‘naturals’ adopt. A ‘natural’ is a man who has the lifestyle, social status, ability and/or characteristics of a sexual selector – i.e. a man who can get beautiful women and is thus pre-selected by women.
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Mr. M – The Comprehensive Guide To Attraction
The question that I hear most frequently from students on bootcamp who want to better themselves with women is: ‘how do I get a woman attracted to me?’. I have decided to write an entire book on Attraction which should be released in a few months. For now, this comprehensive article should help in answering this question.
My Background In Attraction
I used to have massive problems with attraction.
If you have read my bio, you’ll know that I had my first kiss at 20 (almost 21 years old), despite trying for at least 5 years to get a girlfriend. I never wanted to be a ‘pick up artist’ (and I still don’t consider myself as one of those weird group of guys). I just wanted to get better with women and understand why I was so terrible with them. Now, I rank amongst the top men in the world in terms of ability with women. Learning to generate attraction was a big part of this. Read more
Cajun – Advanced Body Language, Part I
June 14, 2009 by Adonis · Leave a Comment
Hey guys, I promised myself I would commit to updating my blog regularly in the new year so here is my first article. You can find the complete article on my blog (at least part 1) and parts 2 and 3 will be added shortly, or I might save them solely for students and those of you that will be attending the superconference where I will be speaking about body language, I haven’t decided yet. Either way, this ones free, enjoy.
Cajun’s Blog
Advanced Body Language
Whenever students ask me how I learned to attract women with such ease I always say the same thing: Body language. I then recite a quote, something that was told to me a long time ago:
“Everything you’ll ever need to learn about women, you can learn from Rock n roll.â€
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Tenmagnet – Running Out Of Things To Say?
June 6, 2009 by Adonis · Leave a Comment
Ever run out of things to say when you’re talking to a woman?
Let me guess, it happens all the time.
From my experience as someone who’s been teaching pickup bootcamps for a long time, this is one of the most common problems that guys have. At Lovesystems, we’ve devoted a lot of time and energy to helping guys with this problem, and to be honest, I can’t give you guys a solution to this problem in a single blog post (buy the Routines Manual for our best work on this), but here’s a great exercise that helps produce REAL results. If you practice this a few times, you’ll DRASTICALLY reduce the number of times you get blown out of a set because you ran out of things to say – and there are no lines or routines involved, just cultivating your own natural game. Read more
Savoy – SmartPhone Game
June 2, 2009 by Adonis · Leave a Comment
How do you get beautiful women in your life?
Guys don’t tend to talk about this stuff. Maybe once in a while your friend might tell you that your opening line was lame or that your clothes are out of style, but most men’s lives are not full of messages and advice on how to succeed with women. There’s no common male equivalent to women’s magazines which are filled with articles like “How to get a guy!”, “How to keep him!”, and “How to rock his world!”
For a long time, men either had game or they didn’t. Those who did just seemed to effortlessly attract beautiful women. Those who didn’t were frustrated or settled and lowered their standards. Read more
Cajun – Subtext: How To Be Interesting!
May 15, 2009 by Adonis · Leave a Comment
Originally posted on Cajun’s Blog.
Alright gather around everyone, its time for acting 101: Subtext!
What is subtext? For acting, subtext is the underlying meaning behind spoken words as interpreted by an actor. What does that mean? Basically you’re adding additional meaning to your spoken words by the way you say them. I’ll give you an example:
Lets say I have the following (cheesy) script for a scene I’m about to act in:
“JOHN and MARY are alone in the bedroom. Mary is upset and John is comforting her.
John: Mary, everything is going to be ok, I just want you to know that I love you.
Now if I’m going to play JOHN in this scene there is a lot of information I’m going to need in order to apply the proper subtext to my dialogue. Things like: Read more
Savoy – Being Too Nice vs Being A Jerk
May 15, 2009 by Adonis · Leave a Comment
Most “nice guys†who read The Attraction Forums know not to be “the nice guy†or “too nice†when meeting women. As a former “nice guy†myself, I know that this is easier said than done.
How hard can it be not to be “nice?â€
Well, it can be… for the same reasons that any dating science personality change can be hard. What we’re doing in the Love Systems approach (as explained through Magic Bullets, the Love Systems’ Routines Manual, and the Interview Series subscription ) is calibrating specific aspects of our personality.
So, let’s say you were like I was ten years ago… and you need to be “less nice.†Well, how much less? How do we know when we get it right?
And here’s a potential problem. If you could map every attribute of your personality from 1-10, you could probably determine an ideal range for every characteristic, and it’s seldom on the extreme. Even among the eight attraction triggers discussed in Magic Bullets (the eight characteristics that virtually all women respond to, no matter who they – or you – are), you can go too far. Take confidence, for example. Being an 8 out of 10 or a 9 out of 10 in terms of confidence is great. Being 10 out of 10 is… a little bit weird. Women might find that intimidating, or assume you are covering something up or are weird or inhuman in some way. Read more
