Daxx - Annihilating Your Approach Anxiety
September 3, 2009 by Adonis · Leave a Comment
Approach anxiety is a brick wall I hear about all the time that guys hit in game. It is not unnatural, it is completely normal, you are just passing through one of the stages that everyone who gets into game goes through. So let’s get to it.
(BTW: We have a model that shows you the phases you go through from meeting a woman to sleeping with her. It’s all detailed in the seduction bible Magic Bullets.)
Why do we get AA?
The # 1 reason we get approach anxiety is our ‘Fear of Rejection’. Our minds tell us not to approach people we don’t know as it is outside of our comfort zones. You have to realize that males are logical creatures (females are emotional), and that being the case, our mind will give us logical reasons not to approach to keep us safe, to keep us comfortable, and will put our comfort above our happiness.
Examples of these logical reasons not to approach are ’she’s probably got a boyfriend’, ’she looks like she’s in a hurry’, ’she’s not attractive enough’ (If she is not attractive then fair enough lol, but even still, for 6’s and up practice makes perfect!). Any of these sound familiar? The list could go on forever. Read more
Tenmagnet Interview
August 28, 2009 by Adonis · Leave a Comment
Today on the SNL Interview series we are going to talk about phone game, so I got an expert on the subject, Tenmagnet, on the line to give his best advice for this often tricky area of game.
Kisser - How To Handle Flaky Women
August 5, 2009 by Adonis · Comments Off
If a girl gives you a “maybe”-type response to a date invitation or says “I’ll let you know”, this is a test from her that is very easy to fail because it’s easy for you to fall into a low-value situation where you’re waiting around with your schedule open for her. On the other hand, if you press her too hard to commit to plans, then you’re chasing her… which is also low-value.
(By the way, my good friend Soul and I have an audio interview on Handling Tests.)
So what I typically do in response to a “maybe” response is that I typically give her a deadline (in a playful way) of when she must respond to my invite by. For example:
“I’ll hold your spot for tomorrow night’s plans until 9pm tonight… after that, my offer either self-destructs or gets offered to somebody else. :)” Read more
Future - Ruminations On Comfort
July 28, 2009 by Adonis · Leave a Comment
I’ve figured out the real meaning of comfort.
Mystery mistakenly called this babysitting; this is an error. It’s also not completely far-fetched for him. Mystery’s personality is a shell, so it stands to reason that he wouldn’t be capable of actually generating legitimate emotional intimacy with a woman on the road to sex. Read more
Mr. M - The Truth About Routines: Revealing the Natural’s Way of Being
July 24, 2009 by Adonis · Leave a Comment
BY
MR M
THE DIRECTOR OF LOVE SYSTEMS EUROPE
The ‘technology’ / pick up advice in this article forms part of the new Love Systems Inner Game Seminar . It is a crucially important part of getting better with women and in your social interactions in general.
Background
I was recently out with the London instructor team (5.0, Daxx, Vercetti, Soul etc) at a high end club called ‘Tramp’ in London. I soon found myself talking to a pretty hot blond girl. We spoke for a while. She seemed interesting.
I noticed that she had very nice nails (they had some sort of floral pattern) and I was curious, so I asked, ‘Nice nails, are they real?’ Immediately I caught myself and thought ‘OMG did I just use a routine’? For those of you who don’t know, ‘Nice nails, are they real?’ is one of the first and most famous ‘negs’ ever developed.
Was it a routine?
Answer: No. Read more
Project Rockstar 2009
July 24, 2009 by Adonis · Leave a Comment
I recently had Mr. M on the SNL Interview Series and everyone LOVED it. Well, guess what. Mr. M is at it again. He has created a program called Project Rockstar.
What is Project Rockstar?
Savoy - Day Game
July 11, 2009 by Adonis · Leave a Comment
A lot of the time we talk about meeting women in bars and clubs. Those are great places to meet large volumes of beautiful women in one venue. But, Love Systems goes way beyond this. Last Monday morning, for example: 8am. On my way to work. That’s a bit earlier than normal, so I had time. And through the window of a coffee shop on the way, I saw a woman who caught my attention. Read more
Braddock - Prescription To Move Out Of The LJBF Zone
July 10, 2009 by Adonis · Leave a Comment
Spend less time with her for a while. Allow her brain to lose some of the associations she has toward you.
When you do spend time with her start slowly treating her different. I don’t know how you act around her, but don’t laugh at what she says unless it’s truely funny. Don’t play therapist. If she talks to you about other guys, listen only mockingly. Make fun of her plight and never feel sorry for her on this kind of shit. Don’t be a shoulder to cry on. Read more
Cajun Interview
July 9, 2009 by Adonis · Comments Off
Cajun is next in the lineup for the SNL Interview Series. Cajun was featured on the Canadian show “Keys to the VIP” as well as being an instructor for Love Systems. In this interview we discuss how to create a an irresistibly sexy vibe using your body language and how to truly master your inner game and start projecting the confidence you were always meant to display. Read more
Mr. M Interview
July 2, 2009 by Adonis · Leave a Comment
Mr. M is the Director of Love Systems in Europe and so I thought I would put him on the next installment of the SNL Interview Series. In this interview Mr. M gives some practical advice for building solid Inner Game, some advice for texting girls, & most importantly: Advice for gaming 9’s & 10’s. Enjoy!
