Adonis – Cognitive Dissonance

To truly understand the process of seduction, a working understanding of the theory of Cognitive Dissonance is necessary. Cognitive Dissonance is caused when a person holds two or more conflicting or contradictory beliefs about the self. When this is experienced, it causes a person so much discomfort that they will typically rationalize one belief away. For example, a woman you have approached and attracted suddenly finds herself wanting to go to bed with you, but this conflicts with her idea of being a good girl or at least not a slut.

(Note: The term “slut” is a construct created by women to use as a weapon to lower other women’s social value. I have no misogynistic intentions in using this word. As previously stated, I believe women should be free to engage in any sexual acts she so desires without judgment.) Read more

Adonis – The Double Opener

I have been keeping this opener to myself for some time now but since the infield footage will come out soon enough, you will see this one used several times to great effect.

If you know anything about my style of game, I hate going indirect! (With the possible exception of mixed sets where it may often be better to go indirect or situational.)

So how do I typically approach a group of girls in the club? I walk straight up to the group and say something along the lines of “Hey….” or “Hey guys….” as I touch the girl’s arms on both sides of me, right around the elbow (but sometimes on the lower back if they look particularly receptive). Read more

Entropy Interview

On this installment of the Same Night Lays Interview series I have special guest, Entropy, and we are going to talk about some of the myths of the community, the 7 simple but powerful immutable laws of pick up, Read more

How I Consistently Get Same Night Lays (The Post That Started It All)

Originally posted 06/05/08

A fellow PUA in my area took me to lunch the other day and asked how I get Same Night Lays consistently (I think he’s seen it happen almost every night we’ve gone out together), so I decided to collect all my thoughts on the subject and post them here. I think there are actually just a few elements to it: Sometimes the simplest things are the most profound.

First off let me say this: Women LOVE sex…probably more than you do. Pretty much everything they do is in relationship to getting more sex. They think about it constantly, even when they think they’re not thinking about it (e.g. they’re thinking about fashion which is merely a means to acquiring more sex). Women are genetically programmed to crave having a dick inside them–any dick! (That sounded semi-misogynistic, so stick with me for a moment). Read more

Eric Disco Interview

It happens to the best of us. We see that attractive girl across the room and we want to approach her…only to be stopped dead in your tracks by crippling Approach Anxiety. Well, Eric Disco is here to help! In this installment of the show, Eric gives practical solutions for conquering your fears of approaching beautiful women. No longer will you let the opportunity to meet the woman of your dreams pass you by due to irrational fear.

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Get Your Copy Of The Charming Rogue Presents: Secrets of Same Night Lays

First off, I want to thank you for being my loyal Charming
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The Adonis Black Book

I recently created a new tool that every aspiring Charming Rogueâ„¢ needs to be using, and I want each and every PUA out there in the field to have a copy of The Adonis Black Book. The Adonis Black Book is a simple tool designed to diagnose your sticking points so you can know exactly where you need to focus your efforts to master your skill-set. Read more

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