RSD - How To Find The Perfect Girl

By Jeffy “Jlaix”, Executive Coach for Real Social Dynamics
What’s up, Friend,

Check this out.

The other day, a friend of mine suggested I was misogynistic.

I believe his exact words were, “Jeffy, you love sex, but you

view women as an obstacle to getting sex.”

Hahah, well, I’ve gotta respond to this, because I think this

whole issue is very important, nay, integral to success in the

arena of social dynamics. So let’s take a minute here so I can

explain how I feel.

When I was a kid, I thought women should be worshipped and put up on a pedestal.

I would see “players” who got with a lot of girls and think they were horrible people who were evil and hurtful

to women.

I thought I should buy chicks things and write poems and all

this bullshit.

I did not get laid much at all. Big surprise.

Then after a couple of seriously screwed up long-term

relationships, I decided to become a player. A straight DOG, yo!

The guy that never calls girls back, and never buys them

anything whatsoever. In other words, a total jerk.

So I fumbled around at this for a while, with very limited

success.

But then I hooked up with the boys from RSD.

As I started to find out what real game was, my attitude

changed once more.

I realized that a great deal of the whole “bitches and hoes”

attitude of these posturing, so-called “players” was the result

of their frustration at being incapable of scoring without the aid of “roofies”.

So, now armed with game, I began to develop a new-found

respect for women.

That’s when I started to get really good.

But as I got more and more success and understanding, I had to

wonder.

A lot of the things I saw “in the field” made me start

to question my beliefs.

The point is, there’s gotta be a way to reconcile this stuff

with your belief systems.

When you acknowledge, as you must, that there is no such thing

as the perfect person or the perfect interaction, only the idea

of it, then the real purpose of striving for that perfection

becomes clear: to make people happy.

That’s what the game is all about.

At the fundamental level, we are all just animals with some

very base motivations for our actions.

In other words, you gotta take the good with the bad.

A major source of pleasure for me is found in having respect

for the “target”. To run a sloppy set is not only a waste of

the potential sex, but also a waste of the potential of

pleasing that woman.

Respect for the target is a respect for life, for who we are

and what we do.

But to give pleasure, you have to take pleasure yourself.

For me, its the satisfaction of being in the field most every

day; coming up with new material, or picking some girl up over my shoulder and carrying her around the bar, or disarming an obstacle, or playing the phone game: the mechanical jobs we do daily, year after year.

This is the big challenge; to maintain passion for the everyday

routine and the endlessly repeated act, to derive deep

gratification from the mundane.

Say you want to hit up an extremely difficult-looking set.

You might look at it and think, “Sigh. I’m gonna have those alpha

dudes up in my face within two seconds, her back is toward me,

she looks pretty aloof so I know I’ll have to plow some serious

bitch shield, and those two chicks with the warts she’s

with aren’t gonna help things either!”

But doing those things- launching your weapons at just the

right time, calibrating everything, befriending the peer group-

that is the game.

It is one of my favorite things to do.

The idea of pickup and the idea of studying/writing about pickup

are to me somewhat in conflict.

There is an inherent contradiction between proscribed routines

or internet postings which are documents, and a pick up artist, who is an evolving soul not easily transcribed in “method” form.

A “method” has no soul. You, as the player, must bring soul to

the method.

These methods and techniques have been painstakingly

documented, but they should be used as tools rather than an

exact blueprint.

You can read the mechanics- how to run a specific routine, for

example. But your routine won’t be perfect if you merely follow

the script. If you don’t feel it, it won’t be perfect, no matter

how well you recite the lines.

On the other hand, if it’s not really a perfect routine, but you

have maintained a great feeling for it, then you have run a routine perfectly because there was that passion behind what you did.

These methods you read about, then, are merely guidelines.

That’s why it’s so important to have a coach, to show you the

finer points, the nuances, that just can’t be conveyed in

black and white print.

As I said above, when I first decided to make that change and

get this part of my life HANDLED, I floundered around at it

for years without much success.

*YEARS!*

It wasn’t until I met up with some truly gifted individuals in

person that my game started to take off by leaps and bounds.

The bottom line?

I’m sure, given enough time, I would have eventually

figured most (MOST!) of this stuff out on my own. But as it

turns out that wasn’t necessary.

Because I found a shortcut.

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Dude, listen:

You’re not going to be able to *replicate* me, Tyler,

or any of the other RSD Executive Coaches.

You may create something that in composition resembles what we did, but more importantly, you’re going to create something

that you have deep respect and feelings and passion for.

And you know what? It’s gonna be more satisfying than anything

we could do for you.

Thanks again for reading our newsletter, and I’ll see you next

time with some more REAL-LIFE tips and tactics. Over and out.

‘Till next time, I’m out.

Sincerely,

Jeffy, Executive Coach

Real Social Dynamics

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Jeffy is an
Executive Coach for Real Social Dynamics. He has dated some of the world’s most desired women and travels around the world as a date coach for clients while teaching seminars on how to do the same. Real Social Dynamics have conducted Live Programs for thousands of clients, including Fortune 500 executives, celebrities, college students and professionals, from over 30 different countries. _________________________________________________________________

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