Kezia – When Do I Call Her?
August 14, 2009 by Adonis
Kezia’s most recent video answering the question, “So I got her number, when should I call her?”. My comments below.
I strongly disagree with this advice unless you are 100% positive you made such an outstanding impression on her that she is literally waiting by the phone for your call at any second. In night game, this will rarely be the case. Sure you were most likely the most fun, interesting, and intriguing guy she met all night (especially if you follow my advice!), but the next day as she’s recovering from the night’s festivities the memory will fade quickly (if it hasn’t been erased by alcohol already!).
Very attractive women are also coming in contact with attractive men (maybe not as attractive as you are, but attractive enough in the moment). Things that are in front of us are almost always more appealing than some memory. Women tend to act in the moment so when she meets this new guy she will often just go for him instead because he’s there…The consequence: She forgets about you quickly!
Also, she recommends you only call on Monday, Tues, or Wednesday. What if you met the girl on Monday? Do you call her Wednesday and break her “3 day rule” or do you call her Thursday and break her rule about not calling Thursday through Sunday?
How about this: Call her whenever you feel like it!
Now, I’m not saying to disregard all forms of social convention or be inconsiderate (i.e. calling at 3 a.m. on a weeknight, calling her non-stop all day, etc), but really as a dominant male you should call her whenever you feel like doing so. I say the sooner the better. If you met her on a Friday night, go ahead and call her Saturday (or do some “Fear of the empty apartment” texting that night!)
In short, this is the kind of advice women typically give because it seems to sound right in their heads, but rarely is it the actual correct move to make!
If you have to prove you’re not needy, you’re pretty damn needy.
“Stay by the phone, I’ll call you tomorrow.” (Zan)
Spot on, she might meet some other dude in 2 days. She knows it’s a silly game you play… so she might play her silly game…and it will suck.
This is what happens when u try to play mindgames with her instead of being true to yourself.
I like the call her whenever u want to. Also I called a girl to her office when she was working she kept saying she was busy but talked with me for couple hours. The
“every girl schedule is different and u should adapt to that” thing goes right out of the window.