IceDragon - Warrior Monks And Medicine Balls

The biggest mistake most men make when they attempt to seduce a woman is they try and penetrate her physically before penetrating her psychologically, and connecting with the deepest recesses of her psyche.

You may have heard before that the game is played in comfort. It is very easy to attract women, and I can teach guys how to do that competently within hours. However, what differentiates you from other men, and what marks you out as a potential sexual partner, is your ability to put your true self on the line, demonstrate your qualities, and connect with the woman on a very deep level, while building rapport. There is no falsehood in this. You have to practice going into deep conversations with women, and that means spending more and more time in comfort while in set. Also, start going on more dates, and experimenting with tapping into her emotions, raising them, changing them, and moulding them like you did with Crayola putty when you were a kid. Yes, the woman will become like plasticine in your hands, once you master the true art of seduction: a deep and lucid connection of two souls.

Case study: IceDragon seduces a Chinese girl

I took this stunning Chinese girl on a date once. Now, just to give you an idea of exactly how gorgeous this girl was, I was chilling out in a top London club, and a professional seduction instructor from one of the top pick up companies was attempting to seduce her. He confessed to me afterwards that she was the “hottest girl in the club,” and this was a club filled with the most attractive girls in London.

Now, although she was easily a 10, I took no notice of this fact, because I wanted to remove the outer layers and find the inner, vulnerable girl. Like the dragon who breathes fire and destroys whatever is standing in its path, the “IceDragon” used his linguistic and seductive powers, and melted the ice-queen to find the real woman who resides underneath. Beneath all the bullshit. Remember that the next time you feel “overwhelmed” by any woman’s outer beauty. Is there true beauty inside ? Give her the opportunity to let you know.

I arranged to pick this girl up from her apartment. I called her when I was outside, and she came straight out. We went for a Thai meal, and got a table without any problem, as it was a Sunday evening.

She told me she didn’t know much about Thai food, except for the fact that it was really spicy, and she never had Thai food in the UK before. I told her that I would order, as I knew what was good to eat here. She agreed.

We started talking, and I decided to delve into her feelings. From a previous conversation, I had elicited that she valued trust in a man. I told her about my views that you should have complete trust in your partner, and referred to a book about ancient Japan I had once read, where a warrior monk and a princess fall in love, but the princess marries someone else, a prince.

There is a battle, and the warrior monk kills the prince with an arrow.

Many years later, the warrior monk and the princess reunite, but the monk is uneasy. He feels that he cannot have a complete expression of love. In a spiritual sense they cannot become one until their hearts are pure, and until she knows the truth about who killed her husband.

He takes a risk and tells her everything. At first, she is angry, but then understands. They make love in a temple, the most fulfilling lovemaking session they have ever had, simply because there were no secrets between them, and they had pure, unadulterated love for one another.

She listened to my story with intent … and deep interest.

We talked about previous partners.

I told her about my relationships, and what I liked about them, and what I didn’t like about them.

She told me that women are very suspicious and curious about what their men get up to … her friend once checked her boyfriend’s Internet conversations, and found that he had been talking about sex to some random girl. Then she dumped him, but eventually forgave him and they got back together.

Traditionally, in China, men don’t marry women unless they are virgins. She confessed to me that she lost her virginity in China.

She told me that she only ever had one boyfriend, and it had lasted for 8 years. She had ended things in June, as they had drifted apart, and he didn’t respect her friends, or something to that effect. But, she still had some good memories of when they were together.

As she was talking about her ex-boyfriend, she became visibly emotional. Her eyes welled up, and I thought she was going to cry ! I just looked deep into her eyes, told her that it was okay to feel like that, and put my hand on hers.

While we were eating, I noticed that she kept looking at me and smiling. I looked up and gave her smile and a wink.

I have to say that, whatever we talked about, I tried to get it back to her feelings, and demonstrate that I understood what she felt.

We started talking about love and romance, I told her the following:

“Say for instance, we are in love. I would accept you for who you are. It doesn’t matter what you look like, as long as our hearts beat as one.”

She tilted her head and gazed at me.

I looked deeply into her eyes, then looked away, and took a drink of water.

She said, “Do you have any tattoos ?” I said, “You mean on my body ? I can’t believe you’re sitting there thinking about my body ! I’m not just a piece of meat, you know. I do have feelings and a personality.” Then I went into a fake strop, by crossing my arms, and turning my body away.

She went red, got embarrassed, and then burst out laughing and starting playfully hitting me !

We chatted for a while.

So, we left the restaurant. I said to her, “We’re going to a bar now.” She said, “Okay.”

We went to a nightclub. I shook hands with the bouncers and asked what it was like tonight. Went inside, didn’t pay because it was before 11 PM, got a couple of drinks, and found a quiet spot to sit.

Consistent with my previous experience with Asian girls, her body language revealed nothing. Actually, it looked a bit closed. Her legs were crossed the other way, and she looked the other way, too. It’s the way Chinese people are brought up to behave. Reveal nothing in public.

However, she was playing with her hair, and had exposed her neck to me.

She said, “I’m thinking of changing my hairstyle, maybe getting curls.”

I started playing with her hair, and trying out different styles. She then put it up in a bun … it just teased me.

I thought that I had to make it fun. So, I whacked her on the head with a pillow, just generally playing with her.

I asked to see her bracelet, it was a medicine bracelet, with several balls made out of some kind of stone. Which is supposed to get rid of all the negative energy in your body. Apparently, negative energy escapes from the right hand, positive energy enters the body from the left hand.

I grabbed her hand for a thumb war, just to feel her hand, her skin. Then I read her palm, taught her the basics, and got her to read mine.

I then got her to copy my dance moves (all sitting down.) We were both having a lot of fun, just doing stupid moves !

Then I pulled her close, put my arm around her, took a photo of the two of us, and kissed her, deeply and passionately.

We left the club.

As we were walking down the street, a couple of flyer guys asked me, “Are you going out tonight ?” I said, “No, we’re not.” Then one of them asked, “Are you just going home ?”

Why was that any of his business ? I mean, it’s fair enough, it’s their job to ask if we’re going out, but as far as going home is concerned, that’s a personal matter.

I said yes. He then looked at the girl in a sleazy way, and said to me “Have fun, mate.”

I said, “I beg your pardon ?”

He got a bit startled and started saying, “I’m only being friendly,” and said to have a good night.

I said “Well, thank you, I hope you have a good night, too.”

As we were walking away, he made some cheeky remark. But I ignored it, and pulled the girl closer to me.

I didn’t mention anything, as we got into the car.

She asked me what my plans were for this week, I just told her I was going to chill out.

I drove her back home, gave her a hug, and kissed her.