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Vin DiCarlo – Attraction vs. Value

There is no absolute and objective value. It is all relative. What is valuable to one girl is not valuable to the next.
This is a long one, so here’s a rundown:

1. A clear distinction between, and balance of attraction and value.
2. The psychological and physiological effects of both attraction and value.
3. The difference between surface attraction and deeper neurology based attraction.
4. Practical applications to decrease flaking and increase your overall odds of converting a chick. Read more

Sinn – Negative Compliance Momentum

So as we all know there is no 100% correct model to P/U. MM is about 85% and that is fucking amazing because it is intellectualizing dynamic real world situations. However with that said I have discovered another little piece of the puzzle.

First some background. In life humans interact in 5 ways:
1. DHV – we demonstrate a higher value to other humans
2. DLV- we demonstrate a lower value- Well not us PUAs but other guys do. we would never do that
3. IOI- we indicate our interest in others
4. IOD- we indicate our disinterest
5. Compliance testing- Almost all interactions at some point come down to a test for compliance. Will you get compliance or defiance? Read more

RSD – Successfully Approach Girls Who Are With Guys

By Jeffy “Jlaix”, Executive Coach for Real Social Dynamics

Hi, Friend.

Ok, so today we’re gonna take another magical journey

into the old RSD Mailbag. Let’s do it…

*** QUESTION ***

Hey man, I’ve been in field a lot so don’t mix this

post up of a newbie since I’ve done my fair share of

approaches and know a lot of game.

My issue is that my results are very inconsistent.

Like I will isolate sometimes and then it will take

a while for it to happen again. I will get girls

asking questions and then it won’t happen for a

while. By the way, I’ve done about 99% cold

approaches and just about 5 social circle ones. Read more

Mehow – Giving Value, Part 2

Hey Mehow here.

Today, we are going to dive into Giving Value - Episode 2: “How to BE the VALUE”

Just in case you missed the first part of this lesson, you can check it out HERE.

Now, before we get into the individual specific examples of how to give value… I want to give you one more bit of solid theory, so you know where we are going with this episode.

I was prompted to write this because a student emailed me and asked: Read more

Juggler – The Juggler Way

Open with anything. It can be opinion or a situation or introducing yourself or even bleeding on people. In dynamic situation (store and moving people) a situational opener tends to work well. But in clubs or static situations I like to just introduce myself.

The key is not the opener. The opener does not matter much. The key is how you handle the response. The method is amplifying and using responses. You want to gain the skill to read and use a wider range of responses – that’s fun flexible and makes real connections. Read more

IN10SE – Deep Rapport Builder

This is a rapport builder as well as an opportunity for anchoring for those of you that do this. In addition, it really shows that you GET IT, when it comes to “relationships”, when a chick brings it up.

I had to come up with a good response on the fly when a few of the gals I have been out with lately have asked me what I’M looking for in a “relationship”. I normally don’t like to bring up the “R” word, but when a gal brings it up, you have to have a good reply… one that will show them that you are intelligent, that you have it together, that you are sophisticated, and that there is more to you than meets the eye. Read more

Badboy – Life Lessons

1) Girls Will Not Make You Happy
Happiness is inside YOU, not in other people… or stuff that you need to buy. That is exactly society wants you to think; to look outside yourself to others or things you need to buy for your happiness. But this can only bring temporary happiness. Most girls out there are unhappy with their lives and they search for a man to make them happy. Actually they search for a happy man, to jump into his life, and enjoy his life. That is why you must focus on yourself first, before you bring someone else in your life. Read more

Authentic Man Program – How To Overcome Neediness With Women… Forever

I find that there is an obsession with APPEARANCES in the seduction community and men’s dating advice.

You are supposed to make it look like you aren’t really interested in her, or you should learn to “say things in a certain way so that you don’t come off as needing her approval”…

They’re not suggesting that you actually LET GO OF THE NEED FOR APPROVAL. They suggesting you “make her think you don’t need her approval.” Read more

AFC Adam – The Metagame

For those of you who have been in the game for a while now, you will probably have developed your own style of play.

Whether you are following one of the more mainstream methods, or have developed your own sense of game the fact is typically we have a sense of sameness to our approach.

E.g. some PUA’s favour a more direct style, others prefere to use some form of dance game, whereas others may still use Routines, or Cocky funny spur of the momment lines. Whatever your style, there is one thing that does apply to many PUA’s esspecially those in areas populated with a strong community, sometimes you can’t avoid sarging in the same venue as other PUA’s. Read more

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