Approach Anxiety = Bullshit!!

Upon further reflection of the subject, I’ve come to decide that Mystery’s commonly accepted theory on approach anxiety is bullshit! In fact, I’ve decided that feeling you get commonly called AA probably isn’t anxiety at all, we’ve just mislabeled it in our head. Read more

Do Less Work, Attract More Women!

I’m going to start this off by saying that this is not necessarily a prescription for solid game in itself but that it can often point you in the right direction. I used to specialize in high energy sarges. The mantra to enter the set with a higher energy than the set seemed to ring true. But there were some problems. Sometimes I didn’t feel high energy and if I didn’t then I wouldn’t approach. Also, I often gave off the infamous “dancing monkey” vibe.

I can recall watching the first episode of “The Pickup Artist” and the key distinction I noticed between the budding contestants and the masters, is that Mystery and crew were completely calm and relaxed in set. Read more